mytake:
we had a man teaching us Tznuis, and hearing it from their prospective was VERY scary. He was a very chashuv man with a beard and all, and to hear how even he gets affected…wow! he was even crying!
i personaly always tuned out whenever we had a Rebbetzen teaching us Tznius. like whoope do! like i’m going to listen to them!
this was just the way i approached it…..