Right. He wanted to appease her before Yom Kippur so she would be moichel him beleiv shalem. See, that’s exactly my point.
And as an aside, I may be wrong but I resent and take offense to being called disgusting – as I am simply engaging my right of voicing my opinion. It shouldn’t be used as a springboard for a character attack against me.
She would be haoisah retzoin baalah only if he asked her to get him something.