me whoo- how would u like someone to say to you- ur a man- take out the garbage and get a job!!! women r allowed to learn- there is absolutely nothing wrong with it- and by the fact that shes asking for help means SHE WANTS to and is not going with the flow-
bssyisroel- first try with the english and once you start getting familair with the words try it without- and go back and forth until u start getting it- once you remember shorashim and dikduk ur pretty much good to go