Mod 80, I completely disagree. I do not think that anyone who questions the actions of any kollel family is automatically doing so because he/she hates talmidei chachomim. The bottom line is that anyone sitting in learning in kollel who feels that they need a house because everyone has one, SHOULD NOT BE SITTING IN KOLLEL!!! If they were talmidei chachomim, would they be harassing their parents, or expecting a house?!?!? I doubt it.
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