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mytake
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GAW

“If the boy is upfront and is only willing to get married if the in-laws provide a house, that is their business.”

You’re right, it’s nobodys business. But, please tell me you see the insanity in demands like these!

My God, I wouldn’t even look at a guy who makes ANY financial demands of me, and ESPECIALLY not of my parents.

Will somebody be so kind and explain to me where $$$$ comes into the shidduch picture? You wanna marry the girl, or not? How does a house or no house change anything about her?