Reply To: It's a secret!

I came to realize that EVERYTHING you say will probably end up going to the person you least want to know about it. That’s just the way it works. I stopped repeating stuff I felt was personal, even if I wasn’t explicitely told to keep it a secret. I’m not really sure about this situation (since you gave us very limited info), but I’d suggest you should try preventing this from happening in the future. It really takes some time to get used to it, but the payoffs are big. (Guess “Syag Lechachma” is a pro;)) People trust you with their personal stuff and you don’t feel like a chatterbox. Hatzlacha in whatever you do!