eclipse, if she is smoking, drugs are either in the picture or will be soon. If nothing else then pot for sure. Girls don’t leave their home at 3:00am and stay out all night because they are eating milk and cookies. Furthermore, they are not sleeping over at their girlfriends’ home so taking her to a gyn might be a good idea. Discuss that with her. Let her know that you have questions since she hasn’t been living with you and you are not sure how long this has been going on. Let her know that you love her and want to make sure that she is healthy and does not expose herself to any health risks or pregnancy. YOU ARE her mother and YOU have to think straight and not have blinders on. Sorry that I have to bring this up, but it is quite obvious what is going on. Girls are looking for love, compassion and affection because of their dysfunctional situation and are confused so they turn to the boys thinking they will get it from them. Boys make the same mistake. There is an old song “looking for love in all the wrong places”. And it describes our kids at risk to the tee. She is looking for a sense of normalcy and in her world at the moment that is what is normal. Unfortunately neither she nor the rest of her group will know understand that it is not until they are much older.
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