so if you knew then what you know now, if you knew before the divorce that he would lie to them postdivorce and turn them against yiddishkeit and make them OTD postdivorce, if you knew all that beforehand what would happen after a divorce, would you still have gotten divorced?
also, #4 was during marriage or afterwards? if it it was during, how would a divorce stop it (especially since some of the kids are [or were] in his custody or with him)?