Reply To: bechira and the Truman Show

but was he more limited in his bechira in the beginning – as he couldn’t marry who he chose, was limited to who his friends would be, they knew his personality and “threw” a woman at him, whom they wanted him to marry, and they even “gave” him a phobia of the water. so did he have bechira in his every day life the whole time or only when he realized that there was some other life out there?