Who decides what one can have and not have. Does one have to live the “simple life” if they work hard all day and do well financially. Perhaps I should work just enough to cover my expenses and thats it. I think the answer is that most people give back (I know I do) to the community in many ways. Some with time, money and other resources. Why cant I enjoy Pesach in a hotel if I work hard all year and help various Tzedaka and give of my time to multiple organziations.
There is not enough to go around and the ones that do well are always looked at to give more time and more money. Some do plenty already and want to have some for themselves to enjoy.