“when ones eternal life is at stake”
When viewed through this prism, why put yourself in this situation to begin with?
“And what will she do if someone asks her a question about her husband? Make stuff up?”
He’s fine. I dont like to discuss my personal life with non family members.
Wedding bands go a LONG way to keeping people away from you. I have been working for almost 17 years and have found this to be the case time and time again. In fact, when one of my coworkers found out I was married (she assumed I wasnt because I do not wear a band) she asked incredulously, “how do you keep from getting into trouble!”. A wedding band is “respected” and people back off, that is how it works in the non jewish world.