With all due respect to all of you who have never gone through the trials and tribulations of infertility and childlessness regardless to your having family or friends in this situation, you will never understand, know or comprehend in the minutest way what we go through or feel.
Having said that, what right do you have to speculate or give ideas or advice? Husband and wife are equal in the journey.
So, unless you’re in this situation or have been don’t just shoot off nonsensical drivel.