i don’t know if romance is the right word to use here. the way the world/society has made it, romance seems like such a goyish concept. yes the boy can be sweet,giving,…u’ll smile at each other sweetly on a date… but don’t put the word romance/romantic there! i feel like it takes away all the kedusha of the concept.
u don’t marry a boy who after having a romantic date, you marry him if his personality, hashkafos… were compatible with yours.
take romance out of the equation.
ps, you might feel really good and excited and happy after a date, but get the word romance out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
don’t mean to sound holier than thou in any way shape or form, i really respect everyone on here, just by the fact that we are all part of one whole, but just like everyone else is entitled, i’m giving my humble opinion