Yes guys have changed over the years but what about girls? Why is it unheard of for a girl to be a stay at home mom?
Rav Miller was very much for SAHM’s and husbands working. He lost out to the “Lakewood” velt (post 1980’s), who hold it is better for women to work and support their husbands learning.
And at this point, tuition (for those who are working) needs two salaries (and let’s not get into the economics of the issue).