apushatayid, not funny. Actually, my daughter said it was much easier for her if we come to her than if she comes to us. It was her request not mine. She is at the end of her pregnancy. And it was much easier for her to sleep in her own bed (as well as the kids) and sit at the table while her hubby and I cleared. As far as my daughter-in-law, she begged us to come for the second days. Her own parents and grandparents go to her the first days and she loves to have the company for herself and her kids. As soon as I got there my oldest granddaughter gave me a smiley sticker. My 20 month old said “I yuv you Bobby”.
Since you don’t know my relationship with my kids, it was way too much of a stretch and an assumption on your part. So no it was not funny and a little bit of a dig. I am always their for them when they call and need me. And when they request my company, I try to oblige as well.
BTW, my children saw this in my home as well. When WE were their age, WE made Yomim Tovim at home and WE invited their grandparents to our home as well. I chose to honor our parents and realized it was easier for me and harder for our parents as the years went by.