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One other bit of advice regardless of which site you use: You have to fill out a questionnaire in which you have to check a lot of boxes in order to categorize yourself. Don’t exclude someone who is a prospective match purely on the basis of that person having checked a supposedly incompatible hashkafah box. For example, there are plenty of yeshivish and chasidic people with lots of interests beyond torah, and there are plenty of modern orthodox folks who are dedicated to learning torah at every opportunity. You may find your basherte is someone from a very different background. Minor differences in minhagim can be overcome. My own wonderful spouse did not check the same hashkafah box as me. Pay more attention to the essays, not the pigeonholes.