popa_bar_abba, here’s the problem I have with this thread:
All of us in the coffee room come from such diverse backgrounds. SOme pple ask “How much should kids tell parents”
Some ask “How much should parents tell kids”
We will never come to an agreement because of the completely diff circles.
When I was in shidduchim, my parents took care of the main legwork. Thats how its done in my circles.
Most others here probably inform their parents once things are getting serious – Hey Ma, I would like you to meet my future wife….