I once heard something that gave me great chizuk (I think by R’ Matisyahu Salomon) he said that there are times when ppl are nervous that their parents are being too picky and pushing away their bashert. What should they do now? they should just know that its not possible for someone else to push away your bashert. you are the only one who has that power. meaning if you say no because of some dumb reason then you might be pushing your bashert but if your parents say no before it gets to you then its not meant for oyu
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