Idk references as others mentioned only know so much abt the person, they dont know what the guys watching or thinking. All they know is from what he says and how he acts. U gotta ask hashem for clarity. I mentioned this before in the cr, I dated a guy who was learning….a learning guy in a goooood yeshiva….maybe even a little greasy…ewww anyways as we dated he started talking less yeshivish and more secular and I noticed the red flags but he was a nice guy so I let it go….until he decided one night to tell me on the phone he doesnt wanna be shomer….i said buh bye rite then and there….but my point being none of his refs wuda known that side to him, even his rebbe and chavrusa who we called….i asked hashem for clarity and bh I got it !!!!
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