Bpt: I agree. You cannot possibly know the other person until after the sheva brachos (or is it a year?). Therefore, you’ve gotta do a lot of research. PRECICELY for this reason! When you go out to date, there’s very little you can actually see. And when you see something you dislike with him/her, there probably could have been ppl who would’ve let you know about this when doing your research. (Not all the time, of course. But again, do ppl who date before doing research know their fiance/e better?) I think that the guys who date a hundred girls without researching them first, aren’t exactly fair. It’s disheartening for the girl as it is for the boy. Why go through the pain and anguish? First ask others to see if s/he is actually for you.
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