Reply To: Information Verification is Vital BEFORE Dating

Home Forums Shidduchim Information Verification is Vital BEFORE Dating Reply To: Information Verification is Vital BEFORE Dating

#769511
RedNails19
Participant

just saying on a general note. i have been dating for some time now and yeah- this entire dating topic is extremely controvertail, as im reading..but yes, DOR YESHORIM- is NOT a JOKE, i personally kno from s/o what tremendous agmas nefesh it can create if its too late and the’re not compatable. and second- with giving over information…i cannot tell you how vital it is to know WHAT to SAY and if u DO kno something that can be VITAL to kno- dont just say it or say nothing- ASK- because from my (unfortunate many) experiences- pple have hidden A LOT of IMPORTANT info and caused sooo much pain. tears, and aggrevation. IT IS NOT A JOKE. so, i found if pple want to hide something, they WILL find a way, and theres really no way 2 fight it- but you have to do your research- READ BETWEEN THE LINES!! And ALWAYS be SO careful with info ur unsure of- remember, u can make or break a shidduch, so think about that.