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It depends where the boy and girl are coming from, meaning how much of American society they were exposed to, and how much they want to feel towards each other before getting engaged. If both sides look into each other very well, and both sides really know who they are and what they want, the boy and girl can know that they’re ready to get engaged after only a few dates. if they actually want to feel something emotionally towards the other person, they have to date longer (but not everyone was brought up in a society where that is necessary). (“chemistry” can be felt on the first date; that they like the person; are not un-attracted to the person; and that they would like to spend time with the person)