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“Going out for longer does not give you any more insight to the person – if anything, it causes problems!”
Monsey Review I could not disagree more with this statement. I mean how can you possibly believe that you do not know someone better when you know them for a longer periond of time??! I’m not sayinthat dating should go on for years bot seeing someone SIX TIMES and you feel ready to MARRY THEM FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?!?!!?!!! Of course it could happen and people do get married and live happily ever after even if they went out for a short time- but going out longer does not cause problems!!! Do you know how many times I have gone out and said no after a 5th date!! things come up later on and you do not want to find these things out once its too late!! (at least I wouldn’t)