yogibooboo
my husband and I knew in the middle of the FIRST date that we wanted to marry each other. we shmoozed on the phone A LOT before we met and then fianlly went out. after 4 dates we got engaged. b”H we are very happy. of course u learn new things about each other every day but that only happens after living with someone. you wont know what they are really like till u r married to them because again until u live with them u never really know!
yogi, are you me???? i never knew we had so much in common 🙂 we spoke once before we went out, bu because we were in different states, so only went out on the weekends. my husband came to me over two weekends, and then i went to him the third. we got engaged saturday night, on the way home from our date, although our date had been spent trying to figure out a wedding date. also, my mother was sitting shiva then, so when i was at my sister house until i went back home, i couldnt even tell anyone!! (although we had a little unofficial l’chaim at my in laws house with all the siblings)