I also understood DY’s statement differently, meaning that becuase we are here in the non-physical arena, we are judging each other by our content, as opposed to our looks, money, ect.
As far as the “Um,OK” comment, I thought you meant that people can form an unhealthy attachment to on-line people, one which they would never form in the real world. Not because real world looks can be a deterrent, but because a person’s on-line personality is sometimes different than their real world one.
Its the 2:00pm person vs. the 2:00am person syndrome. Vastly different, in some cases. That’s why I don’t do on-line at home, and only do on-line in the CR.
It keeps things in check (as they should be)