Wasnt the whole concept of being a “moser” something that shouldnt really apply anymore in a “malchus shel chesed” like America?
There are laws here that protect all citizens equally and it’s not like back in the shtetl where you could be arrested and detained for any offensive real or imagined.
This whole business of not getting the cops involved, from minor disputes to full fledged aiding and abetting of child molesters seems really misplaced here.
Unless people are more concerned with the public perception of the religious community, then the whole situation starts making more sense.
*cue posters with ancedotal evidence about how American jurisprudence is really all very anti-semtic*
And for heavens sake, please dont throw SMR @ me.