Reply To: Shidduchim – Picky Mothers

Here’s a thought. DON’T use Shadchanim. Let kids meet each other naturally in normal environments, learn how to hold normal conversations with each other, learn on their own how to deal with rejection that inevitably will come their way, pick themselves up, dust themselves, off, and start all over again. Leave third parties out of your private business, leave MOTHERS to do mothering and not run interference, and let our young adults actually learn to be real adults on their own.