It really depends on your hashkafa and where you’re coming from. If you come from a home/background where this is totally the norm, it might be something you can’t understand – you’re probably thinking, ‘what could be wrong?’ I made it very clear to my hubby after we got married that I wouldn’t be willing to eat out by other couples for Shabbos meals, albeight loads of invitations from couples in our neighborhood. At first, he didn’t understand what the big deal is, but I explained exactly what bothered me about it (as mentioned in some posts above). He agrees with me 100%.
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