Mosherose
Im not sure if you are a troll or just a young boy needing guidance.
Chazals words are all extremely deep and cloaked with many layers of meaning. It is am haaratzus to take a line of chazal without seeing the meforshim and knowing what it means in depth. Chazal never intended Al Tarbeh to be a cause of Shalom Basis issues, if anything, most people are too busy these days to actually have a quality chat with their wife. Your wife is supposed to be your best friend. Ishto Kegufo! Your wife is like your own body! She is a part of you or rather she is you! You are 2 halves of one soul.