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She has tried to reach out to me on many occasions to renew the friendship. Her nastiness was not an isolated incident, but a lengthy period of time where she snubbed me and ignored me in public. This was after years of putting myself out for her financially and physically, during the happiest times in her life to the most painful. My family made her vort (spending over a thousand dollars) and I shlepped a large wagon full of groceries on public transportation for over two hours to her house when she went through a trauma. In light of these and other such extensions of friendship, it was appalling that someone could so easily discard a friendship without asking what happened. She has a history of using people and then losing them as friends, and yet, I feel compelled to help, but am torn.