Mods, lets not redo the old thread. Both points were made. Starting a new thread about it with the same attitude is not going to change anything.
There are SOME shadchanim who do not “listen to understand”.
There are SOME parents who get in the way of their children’s shidduchim.
There are SOME boys who depend too much on what their mothers think and don’t stand up for themselves.
Then there are others.