Reply To: What Should I Do?

Thank you kapusta and adorable.

I’ve been advised by someone I trust that I speak to her. I did today. Looks like my words had an impact on her (she was unusually quiet the rest of the day). I am friendly with her since the begining of the summer (which is probably why she wanted to discuss this with me and get my att.). I told her I didn’t come to give her mussar but rather warn her as a friend. She seemed to accept what I said (eyes downcast, blushing…). I gave her my phone # and told her she can call anytime she needs some support. I made it clear that I’m willing and ready to help her get over this.

I think I’ll contact Rabbi Wallerstein for guidance. Thanks to all for your advice. Hope things will turn out for the best. Meanwhile, I daven that she should get the courage to do what’s right.