Reply To: How to teach about the spies and tisha b' Av

You must explain to her that we just barely understand Hashems middos, and that His ways are perfect. His Nekama is truth. Our nekama can be good, or bad. If you don’t, there are more than enough references for the question to return. As in Kel nekamos Hashem, and esh ochlah, Kel kana, and Nekom le’eninu nimas dam avadecha hashafuch. Hatzlocho.