blabla: You said:”I feel a lot of pressure from shidduchim, personally.”
Have you had a heart to heart with your parents? You shouldn’t even be thinking about shidduchim and marriage until you are much better. I don’t know how old you are but it sounds like you are probably in your late teens. You don’t have to worry about being “left behind” for several years yet. Your health is far more important at this point. After some therapy you may even find that one of the reasons for the ed is because deep down you don’t feel ready for marriage but cannot verbalize this. Believe me, there is no rush. Get yourself healthy and happy and then – an only then – start thinking about marriage.