If you had a tana you should have taken it up with the proper authorities and not started up with the bicyclist. That was rude of you. Had you been walking in the street would you have told a burly man that he crossed the line and taken up two parking spots? It is just as wrong and as illegal. You were rude and got your face slapped for it. You did not like the answer you received and you brought it here because you felt wronged. But had you NOT screamed out your window feeling so righteous you would not have received that angry and what seemed to you abusive reply. To that bicyclist you were just as abusive.
People need to be more respectful to each other. She noted to you that she can’t use the bike lane because people don’t respect it and block it by standing in it and throwing garbage in it. You don’t seem to care about that. That is NOT your problem or your issue. Your only issue is your rights and not the rights of the bicyclists. You felt that you had the right to speak your mind to that particular cyclist. You did NOT expect her to respond to you, nor did you expect to hear how frustrated the cyclists are when people like yourself speak up to them or react to them. There are two sides to every story and issue and that is something to consider before you scream out your window. I suppose that this time you were lucky that it was only her and NOT someone that would have acted in the manner she described.