ursketching – I am really sorry to read what you wrote.It must feel awful to be treated in that way. It is insensitive of your MIL, but I hope you do not respond in kind. YOUR HUSBAND, however, should make it very clear to his parents and sisters, that this kind of exclusionary behavior does not bode well for sholom bayis, and his relationship with them. Have you ever asked your MIL why she does this? Is there a chance that you may have unknowingly done something that put them off? How do they treat you otherwise?
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