Reply To: "going rate" for bar mitzvah & wedding gifts Home › Forums › Simchas › "going rate" for bar mitzvah & wedding gifts › Reply To: "going rate" for bar mitzvah & wedding gifts August 17, 2011 10:14 pm at 10:14 pm #799038 bptParticipant $250 for a BM? What do they give for a wedding? A car?