Reply To: If Im the ony one to give complete down payment to children…

here’s a thought. tell your child(ren) that you are LOANING them the money for the downpayment and can call the loan at any time. this way if all is happy in their home you have no need to call it , but if there ever comes a time that things are bad, you can call the laon so that your in law child does not profit from the money you laid out.