Squeak, I am not biased in any way. I try to look at things from different perspectives and show others that it depends on which perspective you are seeing. I am a child advocate, so I do look out for children and I do stick up for them. So I will NOT stand by while children are abused or neglected in any way, shape or form. That I will agree with you about. And I am not afraid to go head to head or toe to toe with any man, in that sense I will agree with you as well. But I don’t favor one gender over the other. I call it as I see it depending on the issue. In most cases I don’t know if the OP or the person I am talking to is male or female. I have supported Health when he needed to vent about his situation and his ex-wife and I supported Escape on the same issue as she vented about her EX as well.
I have met a lot more phony men in the religious world than women, and find that a religious woman is more connected to Hashem because of the private and silent mitzvos Hashem has given women and because of the sensitivity of the nature and makeup of the way he created women.
It is YOUR opinion that I have rapid judgments and that I am biased. I disagree with you and there are many posters here who will as well. I don’t necessarily enjoy or agree with your posts either. That is fine by me. We don’t have to agree and I don’t have to like what you write. But you don’t have the right to judge my professional ability since you are NOT one of my clients and do not know anyone that I have helped nor do you know how many people I have helped both men and women. And just as YOU are entitled to your opinions whether I agree with them or not so am I whether you like them or agree with them or not. That does not render me biased nor unprofessional. At times I am answering as a coach and I do say so, and at times I am giving my own personal opinion. Since I am not working in a professional arena where I am getting paid for coaching I can switch hats whenever I choose to.
If you are skeptical of coaching, maybe you should go to Refuah.com or KosherKoaching.com or just google Life Coaching and do some research so you understand how coaching works and how we help people reach their goals and cut themselves loose from the baggage that holds them back. I won’t try to explain it to you because I doubt you will accept anything I say or be able to truly understand anything I want to impart to you because of your negative opinion of me.