I dispute that it is feasible to discuss “high school” It is much more proper to discuss a specific one. I thought for four years that I had a clue what high school was until I spent some time in the proximity of a different high school. It blew my mind. What I thought was “high school” was in reality just my high school.
Bottom line- If you are not ENJOYING the experience, you are in a place thats not for you. there may not be anywhere a place for you, but you should enjoy what you do