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Not really. your gut reaction might be, ‘Oh no…what did i get myself into!” (Hopefully that won’t be the case), but you can then (if need be) force yourself, challenge yourself, to find the good in the situation. Example, you think (what I thought), “Right now this dorm looks so unfamiliar, and i will get lost what will all the staircases and hallways…but in three weeks, or a month, this will be home to me!” It becomes a whole lot easier to deal with!

What i am trying to say is even if you first think “Helllp…” what comes next is what will shape your year. Will you continue to be upset, or will you change your perspective, and proactively find the good. Just because at first you were upset/annoyed etc, doesn’t mean you can’t change your attitude immediately afterwards.

And remember–no one likes to be friends with a grouch.