popa_bar_abba
“I would tell my daughter to do whatever she wanted”
I do not believe you mean that sincerely.
Well, if she asked my advice, I would discuss with her whether she was interested in dating that guy, or such a guy who does that. It would likely depend on the ages involved. So if she is 19 and he is 22- probably not. She is 29 and he is 32- probably yes.
But if she wasn’t looking for my advice, I would want her to do whatever she wanted. My daughter does not live to please me. Does not answer to me. Judaism is a one man religion.