Queen Bee -“Agreed with OP. Why shouldn’t a girl be involved in school? Should she hide in a corner or make the most out of her experience?”
Where you ever in college? There is nothing wrong with being involved in school, but there probably is something wrong in offering to do something that requires socializing.
Taking a break -“is there a problem with being involved in one’s school? this is not for socialization. i did this to help new comers to the school.”
I believe you -that you do this to help others, but you missed my point. You volunteered for this position and basically even though you want to help the newbees, this position requires socialization with members of the opposite gender, whether they are Jews or not. A Bas Yisroel shouldn’t take a position where they have to socialize with the other gender. You aren’t answering their math questions, which requires absolutely no socializing.