Everyone’s posts got me thinking. If I were alone in an elevator and a guy walked in (Jewish or not) I would feel uncomfortable. So I’m glad frum guys don’t come in. I guess I was just bothered because I was so used to frum guys acting the way they do, and then when I attended college, EVERY single guy held the door for me. Even when I was a few feet away from the door, he would hold it open and wait. And they never struck a conversation with me–I just said thank you, he said you’re welcome, and that was that. I’m not saying frum guys should hold the door open for girls, but at least hold it open a bit so I can catch it before it slams into my face…
You’re all right. It’s better that guys don’t look at women like the goyim do, BUT running across the street or into the woods seem a little over the top. At least to me. A guy can just keep his eyes right in front of him and continue walking, like I do.
Aren’t girls taught not to look at guys either?