Shtieger -“Popa bar abba;- I heard from a reliable source that he told one of his buddies that he is afraid to commit…”
I’m appalled at your way of thinking. Did you ever hear of being Dan L’caf Zecus? He told his friend that he’s afraid to commit. Let’s say he really did say this. So because he said this you went on a whole tirade not only on him, but on all males in general. Isn’t it possible that he had a very different reason(s) why he has dumped girls he went out with, but doesn’t want to publicize this, so he made up a story about commitment. I feel bad for you that you can’t look at people of the opposite gender in a positive light. And I feel even worse for the unlucky guy who marries you!