And as usual, we have someone bashing all boys for any and every problem that comes up in Shidduchim. If he’s not sure if a girl is right for him so he keeps dating her to see if she’s his bashert, he’s “using her” and leading her on; and if he chooses to stop dating her, he’s contributing to the so-called Shidduch crisis by being too picky.
By the way, Poppa bar Abba – I’m really, really enjoying your posts on this thread. Great work, as usual.