Reply To: Better Girls Than Boys??

shlishi– yes, but all that is just on the outside. Just because a boy doesn’t learn every second or ch”v goes goes to college, this doesn’t make him in reality not a good boy. And just because a girl follows the system- goes to a bais yaakov and then to seminary, this doesn’t mean that’s she’s necessarily a good girl. We call someone “good” based on whether they follow the system, but I think it’s wrong.

bpt–there is no question that boys and girls have different roles to play. If they both made up that in their house he will be the one to learn, and she will be the one to work, as long as they both play their role to the best of their ability, they are both “good” even if it’s harder for her.

80- I agree with you, but then this is true since creation, and is not a new thing.