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So if someone has a degree or a job they are “better” than someone who doesnt? I know many fine people who are sadly unemployed. I dont measure the quality of a girl by her degree or job. I measure someone by what they are all about and if they care about others.
“the boys in the shidduch arena have zero ambition or vision of how they plan on supporting their family.”
Lets not generalize. There are plenty of boys who went to school and got some kind of degree. Additionally there are plenty of guys who want to learn the first few years. Whats wrong with deciding to go to school after learning a few years?