kapusta, I completely agree with everything you’ve said here.
happiest, I agree with kapusta that what you said really shows your sterling middos. But really, you’d be the last person I can think of that would say something that would upset others.
ayc, very informative examples you’ve brought here. I’m actually laughing right now thinking how awkward I can make someone feel in the following situation: Person asks me “So, what does your father do?” Me: “Oh, he’s a child molester.” It’s actually not funny, but I really am laughing about it!