Zahavasdad, #1 Mazel Tov, you should be zoche to make many simchos. #2 it seems to me the problem is not that the relative is being picky, it’s that it bothers you that they shouldn’t eat. Sometimes you have to include in the cost of the simcha the meals that people will not eat and just be happy that they came. You would have paid for their meals if they would have eaten it so just close your eyes and let them do what they want. Anyway, most caterers pack up the extra food and let you take it home so you can enjoy their meals at a later date. Stop worrying so much about their enjoying your simcha. Do what you can without stressing yourself and then let them worry about what they want to do.
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